Mid-Autumn Day

Moon London

Happy belated Mid Autumn Day. It was yesterday. It supposes to be a day you gathering with your families, chatting and having moon cakes. But since I can’t be with my family or Jenn, and I didn’t want to spend the day with my computer, I went out to a party in a International Student Hall in Russell Square, which I was invited by James.

It’s interesting to see a dormitory hall where students from several universities live together, quite mixed. But it’s more interesting to be among them after I graduated. It’s fresher week, and everybody was seeking names of new faces they meet, follows by what university and majors etc. Obviously they moved away from me rather quickly after found out I was a wrong target. Their faces were just like mine, four years ago from now, very excited and keen to talk to anyone who make a few seconds eye contact with them. Guess I will be like that again next week, when I start my job.

Anyway, after a pub quiz we went to that moon cake party. Speaking Chinese did give me some the feeling of being a festival. But most conversations kept making me realise that I’m getting old (mature), except for those with postgraduate students.

Here is the photo of the moon in Shantou in 2005, when I spend my only Mid Autumn Day at home for the last five years.

Moon in Mid Autumn Day in Shantou, 2005

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Kelly Osbourne Turning Japanese

Just found this program in Youtube. First thought, extreme people experience extreme side of Japanese culture. But it’s still worth to have a look (with a critical point of view) if you are about to travel to Japan.

Links in Youtube:
Episode 1: #1 #2 #3 #4 #5
Episode 2: #1 #2 #3 #4 #5
Episode 3: #1 #2 #3 #4 #5

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Recent society events

GCR Election of Ustinov College

Ustinov College CrestTonight is the election of new GCR (Graduate Common Room) in Ustinov College. I’m not a college member, but I know one of the two candidates who are electing for president and he spent a lot of effort for this election campaign. I enjoy seeing the output of one’s efforts, so I went down to have a look. It’s also a great opportunity to see some brilliant speeches and Q&A because being the GCR committees in the only postgraduate college in the university isn’t a easy job. There are MBA students who had been managers in banks or international companies; PhD students pursuing their Doctor degree. Being a representative among those people do need some real ability. Moreover, Ustinov is known as the most cultural diverse college, which has students from more than 100 different place around the world (so far as I heard). I like an environment like that. However, managing such a cultural diverse community is as challenging as you can imagine. My friend Linda is the international representative, who is also the creator of UIF (Ustinov International Forum). I might have a podcast with her to chat about her working experience in UIF.

The best part of the election was the speech and Q&A for presidency. A lot of challenging questions which requires immediate responds. It’s not less easier than any job interviews, so I learned a lot and enjoyed a lot. Another thought is that there are a lot “politics” going on. As a Chinese I don’t really have much understanding of election until I came to UK. My closest experience of democratic election might be for the president of AJS. But tonight’s one is closer to my understanding of election campaign for politicians.

Newcaslte University AJS

My previous house mate Arata, who is the president of AJS in Durham before me, just set up an AJS (Anglo-Japanese Society) in Newcastle University. She is doing her master in Newcastle. There are quite a number of Japanese students in the university and also some people who are interested in Japanese culture. So after seeing a need to establish a community, she took the lead the set it up.

We are going to have a co-event with them this Friday in Newcastle. Looking forward to see some new people.

AGM of AJS in Durham

I have been in the AJS exec team for about one year now. It’s coming to the election time for next execs to run the society next year. I learned a lot this year while working with other execs and members. Some thought might be wrote down here after I finish some of my assignments.

Lastly, another article from Guy Kawasaki (I’m recently reading his most popular post list) about creating a community. Some principles are quite thoughtful and practical.

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A Little world in little a restaurant

To most people, Oxford an academic place full of the smell of books. But if you are living for several years, you can see although it’s still a quite academic place, to some extent it has changed to more commercial one. Every summer there are lots of students come from different parts of the worlds to here to take summer course (mostly language), and streets are full of tourists. If you walk in city center at lunch on a weekday, you will find English is only one of the languages that around your ears, more are other European languages or Indian, Chinese or Japanese.

Working in a fast food restaurant in oxford city center is a great chance to see a minimized world. Actually there is time when the whole dining area is full of people but only a few are British. It’s fascinating to see how people from different countries behave and eat in a fast food restaurant.

British:
I always heard that English society has different classes, and this become very obvious in a fast food restaurant. You can tell from their dresses, the way they talk, and whether they put trays after meals or not. Sometimes you will go absolutely mental when some kids or teenagers pour drink on the floors or have some ketchup flights. It takes a long time to clean afterwards. Once some boys were locked and asked to clean up their mess, otherwise manager will call the police. I wish I was there to see how much they were embarrassed.

Of course, there are also polite people around. One noticeable difference of British customers is that they always say “please” after each order.

“What meal would you like?”
“Double Whopper, please!”
“Drinks?”
“Coke, please!”
“Eat in or take away?”
“Eat in, please”

Spanish and Italian
I don’t why Spanish and Italian customers are so similar. They usually come in a group of three or four, mostly students. Knowing that they are here to study English, I sometimes have to guess their orders. Once a boy came in and order a “Burger King”, I almost asked manager to give him our franchise contract. :)

They talk a lot when having meals, and noticeably loud. I have been to Spain so I know that it’s their culture that people talk relatively loud, but sometimes they become a spotlight here, because English people tend to eat quietly except those boys with tattoos and caps. However, they talk and joke happily and laugh a lot.

When they finish, trays are normally remained on the table. I guess they don’t have a custom of cleaning trays by themselves in their countries, so it’s understandable.

Chinese:
Students are the majority, sometimes students with their parents. I was often asked in Chinese when they took orders.

There is an interesting similarity among all Chinese customers – chicken wing is their favourite menu. Other staffs there asked me why Chinese people like chicken wings so much. To be honest, I don’t know, but I like chicken wings too. Guess just the cultural thing.

Chinese customers also leave trays on the tables after meals. Once a Chinese boy asked me do English people clean their trays by themselves, I answered yes, and he cleaned it carefully. Good boy! (I will explain why it matters so much about whether customers clean their trays or not later)

Japanese:
It’s rarely to see any single Japanese customer, they always come in a group. That makes a lot senses! I sometimes talked to them in Japanese and they were very surprised. About the trays thing, take a look at a photo I took in a McDonald in Japan, I don’t need to explain anymore.

Muslim:
It’s necessary to be careful when taking orders with Muslims. Any burgers with bacon are not suitable, bean burger or vegetable burger is their favourites, just like chicken wings to Chinese customers. So sometimes it takes more time to take order from them. However, it’s cultural thing, I totally understand.

# The tray issue
Clean trays after eating or not makes a big difference to staffs working in dining area. When I am in charge of dining, I know it’s my duty to keep the room clean. But imagine when a table of 10 people leave without cleaning their trays with them, it’s a lot work to do afterwards. Beside, it’s England here, people do clean their trays and they are expected to do so. Although it’s understandable for those from countries like Spain, Italy or China not to clean their trays, but I am still very appreciated if they can do so. When in England, do as the English do.

I am not sure whether it’s appreciate to write this post, but please don’t take it racially, it’s just cultural difference in a small world (or a small restaurant), as the way I see it.

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